Warning: Journal Entry Ahead
About a month ago I had the idea to move Eliza to a big girl bed. She is 17 months old. She seemed like she was ready and I wanted to let her try out her wings. My thought was to get her bunk beds and only put the top bunk in her room with the rails on so she might stay in her bed. The other one would go in a guest room until it was needed. I searched online for bunk beds but never found a set I liked. Plus they are expensive.
We went to a furniture store and Eliza screamed when we took her away from the ladders and steps leading up to top bunks. Hum... she is a big climber these days. Anyway, last week I was cleaning up our fort in the closet, which had a memory foam mattress as its floor, when I decided to put the mattress in her room and take out the crib. So, without consulting her or explaining the change, I took her crib out, placed the mattress (folded in half) in the corner where her crib had been and put a long blanket over it, ticked in tight under both ends.
We call it her "nice new bed" and she loves it. We put her stuffed dog and bear on it and her favorite blanket and she jumps and rolls on it like we had done in the tent. When nap time came around I was pretty scared. We did our songs and stories and I put her down on her new bed. After I left she got up and played with her books, pulled some clothes out of her dresser,(this lasted almost an hour) and then settled down right in front of the door and fell asleep. She only slept for about 20 min.
That night was rough and after crying at the door and me taking her back to bed, I finally just rocked her to sleep and put her down on her bed. She slept the night just fine. The next night Brad put her down with a few stories and laid down with her for a minute. She stayed on her bed after he left and slept the night.
She has done great ever since. At nap time she usually ends up on the floor somewhere. But stays on her bed at night when its dark, What used to be about an hour of play time is now just a few minutes before she is out. I peek under the door to see where she is and sometimes she is right there(and still awake) and gives me a big smile and sticks her hand under.
Today I let her sleep in her coat, (see above picture) but she usually sleeps in a sleep sac so I know she is warm enough wherever she falls asleep.
A few thoughts:
She now has the independence to go to sleep or read books during her whole nap.
She is learning that when she is tired she can stop playing and lie down and sleep without us having to put her in the bed.
She can play in her room in the morning instead of immediately needing someone to come and get her. (huge for me in the morning)
I want to potty train pretty soon and not do pull-ups or diapers at night so she needs to be able to get up and go potty if she needs to. (or get me and tell me she needs to go) This might end with pee and poop all over her room instead of just in the crib, but I think Eliza can learn to hold it all night.
This all might come back to bite me when she is 2.5 and refuses to take naps anymore but I figure that will probably happen anyway. At least I can lay down with her on a big bed and try to take a nap with her?
Now that she is climbing, I don't have to worry about her falling out of the crib.